Did you just get dumped? Do you want to know how to make your ex want you back?
Men can tend to get depressed when they are dumped by their girlfriend. It is a recognized fact- the depression can last from one to four weeks. During this time they stay at home and go out only to work and do necessary things like buy groceries. Many times when the sting of a fresh breakup is too painful they will not even go to work for a few days. The reason for this is simple, when our girlfriend’s breakup with us, it can be both a huge blow to our ego and a dramatic change to our lives.
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When our woman drops the ice cold water bucket of a breakup, we go into shock. It can seem so unexpected sometimes that we are left wondering if we did something wrong. Did she meet someone else? Our heads are often flooded with questions and the sudden loneliness can send us into depression and sorrow.
So here’s how to make your ex want you back:
If you want her back, the worst thing you can do is feel sorry for yourself, and even worse is letting her know you feel sorry for yourself. If you want to make your ex want you, this is the last thing you want. It is okay to allow yourself a few days of mourning. It is normal to feel bad and you shouldn’t fight back your feelings. But soon, you should pick yourself up, dust yourself off, put on his best clothes, and hit the streets like they were yours. Even if you’re still feeling down, put on a happy face and make the rest of the world think that your life couldn’t be better. If the two of you have any mutual friends, the news will not take long to reach your ex, and she will start to wonder if she made the right choice.
Don’t call or e-mail your ex, not even just to ask a friend about her. You must act like she was never even a part of your life and rebuild yourself better than ever. Taking up a hobby is a good idea or reading some of those books you have stashed away that you plan on reading “someday” will help you pass time. Life has to continue like nothing happened. No dating other women though, if you are out with your friends at a bar or someplace, by all means, talk with women. Just conversation and a little flirting will do. Making her feel jealous is a good way to make your ex want you, but if your ex gets word that you’re actually dating someone else, she may think that you’ve moved on and she might start looking for someone new herself.
Also avoid places where your ex hangs out. Going to these places will make you seem desperate to see her (and that is the last thing we want her to think about you). It is a good idea though to go to nearby places where your ex might see you out having fun. This will plant the seed of doubt in her mind and she’ll wonder why you seem to be taking things so well. She’ll wonder if she made the wrong choice and it will make your ex want you back.
Let the soup simmer a while, so to speak. Your ex should have some vague idea that you’re out and enjoying life without her. She will definitely notice that you’re not calling, e-mailing, and text messaging her like all her other ex’s. Eventually the curiosity will get the better of her and she will start to reach out to you.
Now you must act slowly, seem casual and relaxed, and win back her heart. Remember, just because she is reaching out doesn’t mean that you’ve got her back, it just means that she’s is curious and that the tides are starting to turn in your favor. So take things slow and keep reeling her in. This will really make your ex want you bad.
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