Okay, you messed up and she left you. Maybe she says she left you for someone else, but that’s really not the reason. She left because there was something wrong with your relationship. It may not seem like it, but this is good; it means that you can do something about it to win back her heart.
Here are a few things you can keep in mind if you want to win back her heart.
Now, if your breakup happened recently, you are probably very hurt and feeling emotional. This is normal. Don’t fight these feelings. When things have settled down a bit, sit by yourself and start going over the last couple of months that led to the breakup. Analyze things logically, without feelings. You messed up so find out when and what you did. What changed that made her decide on leaving? Was it a gradual change or was it sudden? What specific incident triggered her final choice to leave you? These are points you must know and understand if you are going to move forward and win back her heart.
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Once this is done, go back to the times when you were first starting to date her, when all was well and you were happy with each other. Go back to the times when both of you were happy and you had fun and enjoyed life together, when there was no commitment or official “relationship,” you were just “friends” who liked each other’s company. Move on to the first months or years when you were together and things were going well.
This is the kind of guy you need to be. Remember that she fell in love with you when you were happy and fun to be with. Not when you were depressed and desperate to get together with her. If you want to win back her heart, you need to become the guy she fell for again.
Go slow, and don’t rush things. Treat this like you are just starting to date someone new for the first time. Ask her out for coffee. This come off very casual and won’t make her feel like you are pressuring her to get back together. When you meet her talk about light and fun stuff. Avoid talking about serious things like your relationship. Have fun, make her laugh and remember the good times. Keep the conversation fun and interesting, start flirting with her like she was a woman you just met and want to get her interested.
If this first coffee meeting goes well, continue to see her. Again, you want to make sure that every time you see her, you are the same happy and easy-going guy that she fell for in the first place. This should not be hard or complicated to do. In fact it is you, the real you. Work your charm in the same way you did when you started dating the first time. Treat her well and make sure that they two of you have a good time.
Don’t push her to take you back or anything. If you bring up the subject too soon, she might leave for good. Remember, you aren’t the only one that’s been hurt here. She probably has some pain of her own to deal with. But it’s a good sign that she’s seeing you. It means that she has hope that the two of you can work out in the long run and you’ve got a good chance to win back her heart. Tread slowly and be patient if she loves you and has memories of the good times you shared, she will come back.
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